What women find most attractive about men are things like competence. If you are expert at almost anything you will feel more confident and have a sense of who you are. This will show in every aspect of your body language, from the way you walk to the way you look at a woman. And women want men with soul, with passion, with vitality, with a twinkle in their eyes, with the promise of an intense, ecstatic life. When men found a mission, show courage, conviction and competence, they feel fully alive and this connects them to their potency. They feel sexy and if they feel sexy they will be sexy.
So perhaps sexual attraction can take on other less shadowy meanings for us and include playfulness, vigor, intensity, vitality and ecstatic pleasure.
Why the bias towards men, you might be thinking? Well, women are simply better at sensing and responding to non-verbal cues. If I presume to consider where women might change their body language, it is either related to their concerns over excessive male attention, usually triggered by their highly flirtatious unconscious behavior; or their worries about failing to attract men, which usually relates to a mismatch between their internal sexual interest and their external concerns to appear chaste because they believe this is more likely to lead to love.
- Sexual Body Language, Martin Lloyd Elliott
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Ever had the experience of not trying too hard and yet things worked out well?
and then on the other hand you try real hard yet things fell apart?
Or the idea of one commenting on another saying “aiyo, you are trying too hard, relax, let things be and it’ll turning out better.”
or even the Chinese saying: “船到橋頭自然直”
That the boat will straighten itself when it gets to the pier.
“The system reflects society. It’s not always fair, but it’s as fair as the system in New York, or Massachusetts, or California. It’s as fair as biased, emotional humans can make it.” Jake Bridgance – fairness of a judicial system
Came upon this quote when I was looking through my notes when I came upon this quote.
I thought it was about life being unfair, turns out not actually, its about the systems status quo. Its a reflection of the society, “its as fair as biased, emotional humans can make it”.
Met a friend from twitter for dinner recently. It was just very random, out of the blue, a Direct Message came in and asked me out for dinner.
“I was like, oh oki, sure why not, I need dinner anyway.”
yes, you can try that on me too. If you want dinner and needs company drop me a msg and who knows if I’ve nothing planned beforehand we can meet.
Anyway, turns out, one of the objective of the meeting was to find the strength to move on.
To know and to understand from me if the pre-conceived understanding was true.
not gonna share that part of the incident.
I want to write down what I learnt from the person.
“you are right, I agree, not entirely his fault, as you said, you changed. n perhaps this is a good defining moment for you. this ‘incident’ is a good turning point for you. to be a better you.
guess I was too into convincing ppl. putting my opinion on people.
thinking back, I guess its not that important to have an immediate closure on something, in this case, to close-up/have a conclusion on ur feelings about him. its not important.
take your time then dear. use the situation as a motivation. be restored in the things that were taken from you. be a better you. be an even better you. I believe in you girl!”
Was at work the other time when my whole routine came to a halt.
Didn’t really witness the whole ordeal, but knowing that it happen to someone in my social circle is shocking.
Shocking. Literally.
I pride myself for being modern, know my rights as a human and my stand as a woman.
So you can imagine the shock I was at when I realize someone in my social circle actually got abused by her boyfriend.
Beaten, bleeding. In the middle of Orchard Road.
I was like O_O “what? are you sure? are you serious?”
She looks really normal isnt it? *referring to the lady in pink on the left
Yup, 15 years past, any cancer patient that has recovered and lived through to that many number of years would definitely look normal.
Went by to Dell and Breast Cancer Foundation’s Women-Only Pink Ribbon High Tea to learn more about Breast Cancer.
Glad to see the good people from XPR again.
Her name is Kelly, A Breast Cancer Survivor.
One of my UniSIM classmate is also a Breast Cancer Survivor, one thing I learnt from the two of them, this illness is often the result of STRESS.
Fatal.. Stress..
That classmate of mine used to work with a newspaper publishing company, is obese, and as herself say, 2 datelines everyday. I dont think I can handle that amount of stress…
If there was 1 purpose for God to have brought me to Thailand….
That was a question I asked myself while reflecting on the trip…
What did I feel when I see the things there?
What did I learnt from the people I interact with?
What do I want to remember from this trip?
It's been said that a person without passion is as good as a walking zombie, I strongly believe in that. Passion gives a person life and makes a person unique. I am passionate about communicating with people. I am passionate about making things work. Do you work to live, or live to work? | Email: avnjl(at)yahoo(dot)com(dot)sg | Follow me on Twitter: @avnjl | Chat me up at skype: amandavalng
Hope the facts are verified though. 
yes, you can try that on me too. If you want dinner and needs company drop me a msg and who knows if I’ve nothing planned beforehand we can meet. 
It's been said that a person without passion is as good as a walking zombie, I strongly believe in that. Passion gives a person life and makes a person unique. I am passionate about communicating with people. I am passionate about making things work. Do you work to live, or live to work? | Email: avnjl(at)yahoo(dot)com(dot)sg | Follow me on Twitter: @avnjl | Chat me up at skype: amandavalng 
